Over the upcoming Thanksgiving and Winter breaks, students should take time for themselves to relax and clear their minds. Longer breaks from school are especially important, according to Lifeworks, “In a 2017 study that was part of the “Solitude Project,” researchers discovered that those who actively choose to be alone experience stress relief and felt more relaxed when they were alone. However, while we may not always enjoy it, alone time can improve your mood and mental health, both for introverts and extroverts. ”
Especially in high school, students are constantly under a lot of stress and when given the opportunity to take a break, they should relax by themselves. According to Verywell Mind, “alone time also plays a pivotal role in mental health. Being around other people comes with rewards, but it also creates stress.” Time with family and friends can be a major part of the holiday, but taking advantage of unscheduled time alone should be too. By giving yourself alone time, you are essentially allowing your body and mind to recover from previous stress. Students will be able to return to school with more focus and even more motivation.
Parents especially are a major source of external stress, in a study by Frontiers in Psychology, “structured time could slow the development of self-directed control, since adults in such scenarios can provide external cues and reminders about what should happen, and when.” This further emphasizes the importance of unstructured alone time over the holidays, the pressures of family gatherings and events create unnecessary stress over a break meant for relaxation.

Being in an undisturbed environment pushes one to explore personal passions without the influence of others. Forbes states that “being surrounded by people kills productivity. People perform better when they have a little privacy.” Alone time not only increases productivity, but also boosts creativity that is not used when around peers, similarly to artists who spend time undisturbed in nature to come up with ideas. “Being alone with your thoughts gives your brain a chance to wander, which can help you become more creative.”
Longer breaks should be taken advantage of as in high school, students get their hard earned Winter break right after finals which is extremely stressful for everyone. It is best to get some peace and quiet after major tests as most students stay up losing sleep to prepare for such tests. The constant stress from school decreases efficiency while learning or doing homework and makes one’s overall performance during the day worse. Methods of self care can be like getting more sleep, eating healthier, so anything that improves one’s mood which differs for each person. Other human interactions like with friends and family can bring happiness but according to THINK, certain traditions and environments around family can cause traumatic memories to resurface. “Everyone has a limit to how much time they can spend with family, and it’s important to know your boundaries. You can’t say yes to every family request and expect to survive the season,” Merson [said].”

This story was originally published in the November 2021 issue of The Rubicon.