Sometimes, not speaking at all is better than sharing your mind.

The world is more divided than it has ever been. Communication is the most important aspect of life, for humans and lifeforms. It is essential to communicate with one another in order to live cohesively. However, given the current climate, dismissing politics, sometimes it is better to keep one’s mouth shut instead of sharing an opinion. While communication is an extremely vital part of life, silence can be seen as a better alternative given the potential repercussions of sharing your voice.

One of these repercussions is the possibility of offending someone in a discussion. Now more than ever it is easier to offend each other. This takes on all different shapes and forms such as how people identify, what religion they practice, or even as simple as an opinion about what they had for lunch today. Everyone seems to be more on edge than normal, given the magnitude of the pandemic and many other reasons. Given that, it is sometimes easier to just keep to yourself if your voice could potentially hurt someone. Once something is said, it can never be taken back. Words hurt more than actions, and in that case, sometimes it is easier to avoid potential conflict by keeping to oneself.

Another critical repercussion is judgement. While some may try to dismiss that judgement is a significant issue, it most definitely is. It is human nature to develop and hold judgments. Whether it be walking down the street and seeing someone wear a certain outfit or having a graded harkness discussion, judgment is everywhere. With that being said, the fear of being judged is also very prominent. Flashback to pre-COVID-19 and step into an SPA classroom that is engaging in a harkness discussion. Everyone, whether they say it or not, is worried about being judged. Will I sound stupid? Am I making the best possible argument? What will they think of me if I talk? Could this opinion possibly offend someone in this class? If I share it, will I be seen as a bigot? The list goes on. While it is important to participate in discussions, sometimes biting your tongue is the safer option, given the current climate of our society.

The third and arguably most important is the suppression of other opinions. Naturally, every discussion has a few people who dominate it. This causes other participants to shy away from the table. They can be intimidated, left out, and even skipped over. This leads to discussions that are not as productive as they could be, because sometimes the person who is the most quiet has something really important and valuable to say. Given this, it is good practice to hold your voice (especially as a dominator of discussion) as this allows those who are not as vocal or as quick to jump in. This will produce a much more productive and respectful conversation.

While communication is arguably the most important aspect of human life, especially in our day and age, it can be better to stay silent. This allows others to participate in the discussion, avoids potential conflict and judgment, and creates an overall better discussion experience for all that are involved.